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This is your own library of Shen Wade Media programs. The programs you own, you can find the links and gain access to them below.

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Library List of Courses

Note: If you have purchased a program, then the "GET STARTED" link will take you to the start of the program. If you haven't purchased that program, this will lead to an error page.

Becoming His One & Only

The promise of this course is for you to have your chosen man fall in love with you & beg you to be his one & only by embodying these 5 feminine secrets, even if he’s been distant, avoidant, or losing interest…

4 Hours 
5 Video Lessons
Presented by Renee & D.Shen

High Value Attachment

The promise of this course is to help you to use your innate feminine bias for early attachment to create deeper attraction with men and inspire a deeper commitment from him without you looking needy and low value. 

90 Minutes + QnA 
2 Video Lessons
Presented by Renee & D.Shen

Understanding Men

The promise of this course is for you discover the secrets of the masculine perspective so that you can get through to any man, connect with him heart to heart, and inspire his deepest loyalty and commitment.

9 Hours Over 7 Modules 
28 Video Lessons
Presented by Renee & D.Shen

High Value Profile & Banter

The promise of this course is for you to effortlessly find exciting matches, spellbinding conversations and exhilarating real life dates with high value men through a "dark feminine" approach to online dating… 

7 Hours Over 2 Modules 
18 Video Lessons
Presented by D.Shen

Commitment Control 2

The promise of this premium course is for you to experience the freedom and joy of going from “not knowing where your relationship is going”, to a deeply committed life long relationship without any resistance, withdrawal or heartache…

20 Hours Over 4 Weeks
36 Video Lessons
Presented by Renee & D.Shen

High Value Mindsets

The promise of this program is to give you the ability to “trade in” your anxiety and insecurities for self esteem, self worth and intrinsic confidence, so that no one will ever take you for granted & high value men will recognise you as an indispensable “keeper”.

4 Hours 
5 Video Lessons
Presented by D.Shen

Attraction Pebbles

The promise of this course is for you to learn and master the dark feminine art of “Attraction Pebbles” to effortlessly capture & keep high quality men’s attention, cultivate deep emotional attraction & make them chase you!

3 Hours
12 Video Lessons
Presented by D.Shen

Triple Your Radiance

The promise of this course is for you take 3 specific steps to permanently triple your feminine radiance, become infinitely confident and exude an aura men cannot resist.

90 Minutes
7 Video Lessons
Presented by Renee & D.Shen

Not Available for Purchase.


The Secret Cube

The promise of this course is for you to learn a specific personality game that is fun and exciting but also reveals the inner character of any man you play it with.

2 Hours
9 Video Lessons
Presented by D.Shen

Not Available for Purchase.


High Value High Status for Facebook

The promise of this course is for you to eliminate any signs of being desperate or low value and start showing up as a high value high status woman on Facebook and other social platforms.

2.5 Hours 
4 Video Lessons
Presented by D.Shen

Not Available for Purchase.


Infinite Value to Men

The promise of this workshop is to give you a blueprint of how men perceive value throughout the different stages of a relationship and how you can transform yourself into a woman of infinite value to men.

2.5 Hours 
Workshop Style
Presented by D.Shen

Not Available for Purchase.


8 Traits

The promise of this course is for you to master the 8 traits of high value women that men routinely fall in love with, even if you have no esteem and no belief in yourself. 

Ebook Format
Any Device
Presented by D.Shen

17 Attraction Triggers

The promise of this course is for you to discover the 17 Attraction Triggers that are guaranteed to make almost any man you wish to never look at another woman ever again.

Ebook Format
Any Device
Authored by Renee & D.Shen

How to Stay High Value When He Pulls Away

The promise of this course is for you to learn the secret to showing up & staying as a high value woman when your man pulls away, so that he can come back to you with more interest, more desire & more appreciation for you.

Ebook format
Any Device
Authored by Renee

Love Without Being Used

Love can be a very confusing place to be. It's easy to lose your sense of self inside a relationship. Our hope is that you will find a new place of strength, confidence and self love through this report.

Ebook format
Any Device
Authored by Renee

Join Us in Our Alumni Group

Please join us in our Shen Wade Media Alumni Group on Facebook. This is a support group that is specifically for those who have studied one or more of our courses. Renee & D. Shen regularly contributes to the group and you are welcome to ask your personal questions. CLICK HERE TO JOIN.

Fast Track Your Progress by Watching These Case Studies

The best way is to always learn from other people's experiences.

Alena's Case Study

Discover how the introverted Alena got her man to ask her out almost instantly and for the very first time in her life, she started attracting highly esteemed men & making real progress in overcoming her own anxious attachment patterns... All by using this dark feminine art of banter. (...Even when she was completely skeptical to begin with!)

Alison's Case Study

Discover how Alison ended her cycle of abusive relationships by learning to quickly weed out the "wrong types of men", inspiring deep devotion from her chosen man and passing the hardest test of them all - an accidental pregnancy after a month of dating! (...All because of one simple skill every woman should have.)


Yana's Case Study

From icebreaker to engagement in just 8 months… Discover the exact steps Yana took and the specific banter lines she used in order to attract the man of her life online and inspired him to propose after a short 8 months. (And then married within another 2 months…)

Kristin's Case Study

Learn how Kristin went from being completely burnt out with online dating, sick of getting ghosted & exhausted from giving her heart and soul with nothing in return... to having high value men begging for her attention & having the most "electric" date of her entire life. (...All by changing one simple thing.)

Renee Wade

Author at The Feminine Woman, Thought Leader on Femininity, Sexual Polarity and Intimate Relationships.

When Renee first founded The Feminine Woman back in 2009, she had only one mission - to help women have a deeper understanding of men, dating & relationships. She realised that by understanding and appreciating certain aspects of men and their masculine energy, it made communicating to men, creating attraction and deep connection with men exponentially easier & smoother.

The biggest inspirations behind her desire to teach the feminine masculine difference was through her own struggles in her personal relationship and the relationship of her closest friends.

After completing law school, Renee made the leap of faith to pursue her passion in teaching relationship and spiritual skills and mindsets and she has not looked back. Her blog The Feminine Woman has attracted over a million visitors and continue to inspire women from around the world.

Renee has authored a large portion of the programs here at Shen Wade Media and will continue to create the latest and most cutting edge content. 

D. Shen

Founder of Commitment Triggers, Author, World Class Coach & Thought Leader on Attraction, Love & Intimate Relationships.

D. Shen is also the founder of CommitmentTriggers.com where he teaches women how to show up as high value high status, how to inspire a deep sense of emotional commitment from any man and create that healthy, passionate relationship we all crave. 

For the past decade, he took it upon himself to research and figure out the science as well as the art of long term commitment, falling in love, and staying in love. 

D. Shen deeply believes that we all deserve love in this lifetime. He believes that every single one of us has the capacity and the power to create that deep soulmate relationship that we all crave. 

Ultimately he believes that if we can create more relationships that are built upon attraction, passion and love, rather than fear, insecurities and guilt, then the world will become a better and safer place. With stronger relationships come stronger individuals, stronger families and stronger societies and therefore a better future for our next generation. 

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